Friendship

Lila and I have known each other since we were in our late 20s. Now we're in our early 40s. 

Me: What is something you like about aging?

Lila: Not much. I don't like any of the physical elements about aging. I do feel like I have more experiences, friendships, perspectives. So I do like the intellectual part about aging. 

Connection

A few nights ago Georg's mom stayed at our place for a few hours after we put the kids down. Georg and I went into Basel and met some friends for a drink. On the way, we walked over the bridge, holding hands looking at the view of the Rhine. Georg pointed out this new path to me. We are together all the time, but connecting isn't guaranteed since the kids demand so much of our constant attention.